陪我看日出

《我来自纽约》插曲

雨的气息是回家的小路
路上有我追着你的脚步
旧相片保存着昨天的温度
你抱着我就像温暖的大树

雨下了走好路 这句话我记住
风再大吹不走祝福
雨过了就有路 像那年看日出
你牵着我穿过了雾
叫我看希望就在黑夜的尽处

哭过的眼看岁月更清楚
想一个人闪着泪光是一种幸福
又回到我离开家的小步
你送着我满天叶子都在飞舞

雨下了走好路 这句话我记住
风再大吹不走祝福
雨过了就有路 像那年看日出
你牵着我穿过了雾
叫我看希望就在黑夜的尽处

雨下了走好路 这句话我记住
风再大吹不走祝福
雨过了就有路 像那年看日出
你牵着我穿过了雾
叫我看希望就在黑夜的尽处
虽然一个人我并不孤独
在心中你陪我看每一个日出

Locked Away

feat. Rock City & Adam Levine

If I got locked away
And we lost it all today
Tell me honestly, would you still love me the same?
If I showed you my flaws
If I couldn't be strong
Tell me honestly, would you still love me the same?

Right about now...
If a judge for life me, would you stay by my side?
Or is you gonna say goodbye?
Can you tell me right now?
If I couldn't buy you the fancy things in life
Shawty, would it be alright?
Come on show me that you are down

Now tell me would you really ride for me?
Baby tell me would you die for me?
Would you spend your whole life with me?
Would you be there to always hold me down?
Tell me would you really cry for me?
Baby don't lie to me
If I didn't have anything
I wanna know would you stick around?

If I got locked away
And we lost it all today
Tell me honestly, would you still love me the same?
If I showed you my flaws
If I couldn't be strong
Tell me honestly, would you still love me the same?

Let's get it diddly-dong-dong-dong-dang
All I want is somebody real who don't need much
A girl I know that I can trust
To be here when money low
If I did not have nothing else to give but love
Would that even be enough?
Girl meh need fi know

Now tell me would you really ride for me?
Baby tell me would you die for me?
Would you spend your whole life with me?
Would you be there to always hold me down?
Tell me would you really cry for me?
Baby don't lie to me
If I didn't have anything
I wanna know would you stick around?

If I got locked away
And we lost it all today
Tell me honestly, would you still love me the same?
If I showed you my flaws
If I couldn't be strong
Tell me honestly, would you still love me the same?

Tell me, tell me, would you want me?
Tell me, tell me, would you call me?
If you knew I wasn't balling
'Cause I need a girl who's always by my side
Tell me, tell me, do you need me?
Tell me, tell me, do you love me?
Or is you just tryna play me?
'Cause I need a girl to hold me down for life

If I got locked away
And we lost it all today
Tell me honestly would you still love me the same?
If I showed you my flaws
If I couldn't be strong
Tell me honestly would you still love me the same?

If I got locked away
And we lost it all today
Tell me honestly would you still love me the same?
If I showed you my flaws
If I couldn't be strong
Tell me honestly would you still love me the same?
Would you still love me the same?

Would you still love me the same?

Read more: R. City - Locked Away Lyrics | MetroLyrics

3 relationship habits you think are toxic that are actually healthy

Relationship habits are always under debate, but here are three of them you may think are toxic that are actually healthy for you. With the help of Mark Manson, we’ve nailed down five healthy habits that you may have been told were toxic – or may have just thought were toxic. Here we go:
 

 

1) “Letting some conflicts go unresolved.”

We know that you’ve always heard that you should never go to bed angry, but sometimes you just have to. “The idea that couples must communicate and resolve all their problems is a myth.” Manson attributes this knowledge to the wealth of research done by Jon Gottman, with the Gottman Institute. “In his research of thousands of happily married couples, some of whom have been married for 40 years, he found time and again that most successful couples have persistent unresolved issues, unresolved issues that they’ve sometimes been fighting about for decades.” At the end of the day, you’re in a relationship with another human. This other person has thoughts, emotions and ideas that you may not agree with. In fact, you may never agree with some of them. It is vital to the success of your relationship that you let those things go. One idea, one argument, one opinion does not have to destroy a relationship. Don’t let it. Let some conflicts go unresolved and you will find much more happiness in the long term.

2) “Being willing to hurt each other’s feelings.”

“When our highest priority is to always make ourselves feel good, or to always make our partner feel good, then nobody ends up feeling good.” When you are in a relationship, an honest relationship, you must be willing to risk a few feelings for honesty. Your relationship is about trusting and supporting one another, and you need to be able to verbalize your actual feelings and emotions without fearing that you will hurt your partner or you may wind up losing the sense of reality in your relationship. “These (honest) conversations are paramount to maintaining a healthy relationship that meets both people’s needs.” After all, if you lie today about how something doesn’t bother you – it will be even worse when you bring it up later and say it actually does bother you. Be honest from the get-go.

3) “Spending time apart.”

It is important to spend time with your partner, but it is also important to spend time away from them. When you are cultivating a healthy relationship, you need to recognize when it is time to find a little bit of space and reclaim your identity. “The problem with allowing your identity to be consumed by a romantic relationship is that as you change to be closer to the person you love, you cease to be the person they fell in love with in the first place.” It is important to the continued success of your relationship and for your own happiness that you remain yourself and find space when you need it. “It’s important to occasionally get some distance from your partner, assert your independence, maintain some hobbies or interests that are just yours. Have some separate friends.” When you have this space, you allow your relationship to breathe. You don’t want to crush your relationship under the pressure of spending every waking moment together, and so this space is vital to the success. It also allows you more interesting topics to discuss, and you get to share your world with your partner when you tell them about your day. It keeps intact the surprise aspect of the relationship that you may have once thought was gone.


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